Judy Bartkowiak

Judy Bartkowiak

NLP Trainer (Sue Knight & Jeremy Lazarus) EFT Trainer (Karl Dawson, Sharon King, Kim Marshall, Janice Thompson, Caroline Dawson) Trains NLP & EFT Kids Practitioner

NLP Trainer - Accredited ANLP and Sue Knight

EFT Trainer - Accredited Karl Dawson, Sharon King (Birth), Kim Marshall (Eating Disorders), Janice Thompson (Grief and Loss) Caroline Dawson (Past Life) 

Reiki Master Trainer - Accredited Debbie Lawrence 

 

I work with children, teens, young people and mums

Birth and early childhood trauma

Addictions

Relationship with food

Grief and Loss

Anxiety, Anger and difficulty managing emotions

Low self-esteem

 

Over the last 20yrs I have worked on a wide range of issues but what I find most fascinating and effective modalities are:

* Matrix Reimprinting

- working with mums on their feelings pre pregnancy (issues around miscarriages and abortions , IVF and other pre conception feelings) pregnancy anxieties and birth trauma, early childhood key events which have imprinted core beliefs that have been passed on to their child or teen. By healing mum's trauma during pregnancy and birth, together we have created a new way of thinking for the child or teen client

- working with mum and dad's own childhood issues which have created core beliefs for them about being a parent, and about themselves, healing these blocks to being a happy and well resourced parent, creates a new and healthier relationship with their child/teen 

- working with children and teens on their own early childhood traumas - events that for them have been 'unexpected', 'dramatic', 'isolating' and for which they had 'no strategy'. By revisitimng their 'echo' or 'inner child' we can help them gain a new perspective and create a more resourceful belief which will transform their world. 

* Picture Tapping Technique

- a combination of EFT Tapping, Art Therapy and Clean Language which I love because it is 'content free' and enables me to heal trauma, all forms of UDIN (something that happened in utero, birth or 0-6yrs which was 'unexpected', 'dramatic', isolating' and for which the baby or child had 'no strategy'. 

* Aroma Reiki 

- Balancing the chakras. Then connect energetically and identify blocking beliefs using The Emotion Code, Energy Alignment Method to explore where these orginated and then release using The Light Matrix

I use this to explore ancestral issues, core beliefs that have passed down the mother or father's line (for the parent) which enables me to better understand what the child has downloaded. 

*Meta Health

- there is a connection between the physical issues we have and their emotional content. When clients understand and connect energetically with what their body is communicating, the pain or condition diminishes, even disappears

All of the above are underpinned by a sound framework of NLP. 

* I believe the child or teen already has all the resources they need. Rather than me needing to 'fix' what's 'wrong' we work collaboratively with parents and sometimes siblings, to help them access their 'Models of Excellence' both within themselves and in those they aspire to be like.  

* I believe the person with the most flexibility controls the system, by introducing children to different modalities, NLP techniques and new understanding of how their mind works and how they process their world, they have more choices and this gives them power and autonomy

* I believe that if you always do what you've always done, you will always get what you've always got. I check in with my child clients before accepting a booking, that they want to work with me and they are open to change. 

* Children have very little control over their external environment but I can help them work on controlling how they respond to it. A + B = C A being the activating belief that they can't change, C being the consequence or result they want and by 'solving for happy' (Mo Gawdat - Solve for Happy) and changing their belief to one that makes them happy, they can control the outcome

* Behind every behaviour is a positive intention. It is my job to be curious, along with my client and their parents, to find it and explore other ways to meet that intention in a way that works more effectively for everyone

* I have no wish to create a codependent coaching style weekly sessions for months practice, I want children to feel empowered and resourced such that they don't need me. hence the importance of also resourcing parents to support their new patterns. 

* I believe in the combination of a range of modalities: NLP, EFT, PTT, Matrix Reimprinting, Reiki, Art Therapy, Crystals, Essential Oils and good old fashioned walking and talking in nature. 

A new persepctive on their world, the people in it, the situations they encounter and the blocking beliefs they experience.

A range of options they can apply in different situations. 

By collaboratively working, they take ownership of their solutions, empowering them to move forward.

They realise that by being curious , by being creative and by opening up to possibilities they hadn't even considered, they are actually much more empowered, confident and resourceful than they ever imagined. 

I only accept child or teen clients who have specifically asked for help, in all other cases I work with a parent. 

 

I trust them to be intuitive. If they like what they see and hear and feel on the (video whatsapp) Discovery call, then they will book. 

Sometimes it just isn't the right time for them or their child but I trust they will get back to me when the time is right. 

Most of my clients are recommended by other parents who have seen successful results. 

 

I would suggest checking out my Socials. I share a lot of photos from the therapy room (obviously not clients!) which show very clearly how I work. It doesn't look like a 'normal' therapy room. I usually suggest that parents show their children and teens my Insta profile. 

I offer such a range of modalities that my child and teen clients enjoy a fun and insightful session each time. If they don't seem very keen on one thing, we switch to another. There's no set routine. 

I do not accept parents wanting to book in their child in order to get them to concentrate better or get better grades. I believe this is the school's responsibility. 

 

Certifications

NLP Practitioner

Trained by Sue Knight

NLP Master Practitioner

Trained by Sue Knight

NLP Trainer

Trained by Sue Knight

Specialist skills

  • Addictions
  • Allergies
  • Anger Management
  • Confidence Building
  • Eating Disorders
  • Health and Wellbeing
  • Limiting Beliefs
  • Personal Resilience
  • Phobias
  • Relationships
  • Sports Performance
  • Stress Management
  • Time Line Work
  • Trauma (with appropriate qualifications)
  • Working with Young People (with appropriate vetting)

Spoken languages

  • English

Practice/Training Locations

Maidenhead, Bucks and Berks Hove, Sussex Oakley, Oxfordshire

Offers virtual sessions

Training offered

  • Introductory
  • Diploma
  • Practitioner
  • Specialised Workshops

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Art Therapy Workshop

I recently attended Judy's Art Therapy Workshop. It was a fantastic day offering me an insight into processes used in NLP. Judy is a very experienced and successful practitioner. I thoroughly enjoyed sharing practice and would highly recommend attending one of her workshops.

My son also recently completed her anxiety busting programme and I have seen a huge improvement in his resilience and the way he tackles difficult situations. Thank you so much!


Steven G

Judy Bartkowiak Making Me Confident!

I was nervous and excited about starting NLP sessions, I knew that I needed to improve my internal thought process so I could thrive in my personal life as well as my business life. Judy was able to give me the training that I needed to build my self-worth and the confidence I gain was almost immediate. I really enjoyed my time with Judy and I'm recommending her to others that I know need some support - so they too can feel great again!


A review by Michelle Thomas

I have just attended the residential NLP for Kids workshop with Judy.

I discovered Judy when I ordered some of her books from Amazon as I first began my NLP journey. I was particularly interested in learning more about how NLP could help parents and children in their day to day relationships.

The books were fascinating and full of interesting and useful facts and ideas. Once I had completed my practitioner course I decided I wanted to focus my practice purely on parents and children and I contacted Judy about attending her specialised course.

Its been an excellent experience! Judy demonstrated her considerable skills in working with both children and parents over the course of the week. The course was full of insight on how the techniques work to support both children and parents.

I am now energised and excited to begin my own practice and cannot recommend the training enough if you are interested in working in this area!

Thanks Judy!


Angel Stewart-Wilson

A review by Angel Stewart-Wilson

I highly recommend Judy's course. With the course you are provided a nice selection of her books, correspondence with her as well as live Skype (or other resources) sessions! It is wonderful. Her support is incredible and she is magnificent in her teaching methods. So very blessed to have studied under her!


Caroline Molloy

A review by Caroline Molloy

I have undertaken the NLP distance learning and found Judy to be a knowledgeable and excellent teacher. There are great resources in her books and additional resources on the private facebook group. A definite must if you are working with children and young people .


Alexandra Vassy

A review by Alexandra Vassy

You know that finding a real professional training in NLP is not easy. I kept looking long on the net and contact many people before choosing Judy and I have to say that is was the perfect choice. Her professionalism and her large experience on NLP helped me a lot. Her course is well designed and fun to follow full of example and practice. Judy is always willing to help when we have questions, she has a nice energy and each appointment on the net was a real pleasure. I really learned a lot. Also interaction with others members of the group were so interesting it helped us to compare point of view and give us ideas. I completed my NLP kid's certification 5 month ago and in my everyday practice it makes a big difference... I really recomamd Judy and her training.


Gill Hudson

A review by Gill Hudson

I attended a 4 day NLP kids course in August 2015 ran by Judy. It was very informative,easy to follow and fun. I have also read many of Judy's books, which again are very good.
Judy allowed me to stay at her home and shared her vast knowledge and experiences with me and a fellow student.
Judy has given me the confidence to start my own coaching practice.... thanks Judy
I would recommend this course to every parent and teacher


Andre Bagein

A review by Andre Bagein

Judy Bartkowiak have the biggest heart and her NLP kids practitioner is one of the best and most effective distance courses I have done. The material for the course is fantastic and very intresting specially her book, "NLP for parents" I can really recomend anyone who is intrested in imoroving their parental-skills to take contact and do her practitior course.


Nikita Thakrar

A review by Nikita Thakrar

Judy is a wonderful positive person. Her books are well illustrated ideal for children and she is full of life as a trainer. She brings out the best in people and encourages them to achieve their full potential by recognising their innate talents and skills. I would sincerely reccomend Judy.


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