Wendy Soper

Wendy Soper

NLP Master Professional | Wellbeing Coach | Balanced by Wendy

Welcome to my ANLP profile page I'm Wendy, I see clients from my practice in Hullbridge, Essex (and online throughout the UK) I'm an NLP Master Practitioner. 

I am most passionate about helping you to see beyond current beliefs, thoughts, internal conflicts, feelings... you know those that could be holding you back. To empower each person to be able to be free of that 'old stuff' that does not serve you from being who you really want to be in your life!

When and only when you are ready...

You can visit my clients reviews (click on the link above). To learn a little more about me, the feedback I've received and how I have supported my clients.


I specialise in helping people to learn how to take back control and keep it. Working through challenges and emotions by building confidence, power with decisions, happiness & joy, clarity and direction.

When your stuck in life and no matter how hard you think you cannot find or imagine your way through. You may have sad feelings that are less helpful, or internal conflict part of you wants to do one thing another wants to do something else. Talking these through will be the start of the steps forwards for you, one at a time without any overwhelm or pressures guided by me.

Relationships with parents, children, partners or work collegues I'll support you in a way to understand more than one perspective. Even when sometimes in these relationships your unable to speak directly to the other person. Being able to allow the negative chat and or emotions you have to shift positively. So they are not in control each and every day, by using NLP tools shared by me and the relationship model. Many of my clients have found this to be beyond helpful and have gone on to have much better relationships.

I have shared with incredible results Managing the 3 L's of stress! The wrong type of Stress is something we can all do with less of and how to understand where it comes from and manage positvely, this tool does exactly this. 

I care about you and sharing my knowledge and wisedom to show how you can also use NLP tools, language and thoughts to move forwards positively. That once you have some knowledge you to can make the changes independently yourself managing your own challenges, how amazing would this be?

You are unique and individual, so over time or even not too much time at all. Old beliefs, behaviours, thoughts, values the 'stuff' that does not serve a good purpose can be worked through and positively changed for a better future outcome for you.

You can move towards happiness, joy, fun, success, confidence, resourcefulness, manage your stress be more resiliant and much more if you choose to, it is all up to you.

Being listened to and heard and maybe for the very first time I'm here for you I'm listening.

I have a safe space for you I will be patient, kind, supportive I will go at your pace and be your trusted confident with the utmost integrity. I will guide, share, be resourceful and flexible to any changes as we communicate. 

You will be able to confidently make your own positive choices.



More importantly I understand and I care about you and our fit, that myself and you have the best rapport and that we build trust and have a 2 way open communication.

First established with a free discovery call or in person chat. If both myself and you are happy with the discovery chat/call, the rapport is there and the change to be worked on is agreeable a further meeting will be booked. Only if rapport, communication and change are in agreement by both you and myself.

I am flexible maybe the day you have your next meeting something has changed that is more important than the discussion we had previously. I've got you, this is no problem life has curve balls it is what we do with them that matters. 

I give you my complete attention, you and your safety are important and where you want to be in terms of your outcome on the day. 

Step by step moving towards your wants, needs and aspirations for a now and future better you. 

You can email ([email protected]) or phone me (07790546579)  if you would prefer to chat about any areas you would like to work on, and to see if we 'fit'.

The choice is always yours to make!

Thank you for reading all the way to the end of my profile have a great week. 


NLP Practitioner

Trained by Emma McNally - Achieve Your Greatness Limited

NLP Master Practitioner

Trained by Emma McNally - Achieve Your Greatness Limited

Specialist skills

  • Allergies
  • Breakthrough Sessions
  • Career Change
  • Confidence Building
  • Health and Wellbeing
  • Limiting Beliefs
  • Motivation
  • Personal Development Coaching
  • Personal Resilience
  • Phobias
  • Relationships
  • Sports Performance
  • Stress Management
  • Time Line Work

Spoken languages

  • English

Practice/Training Locations

I run face to face sessions from my countryside practise in Hullbridge, Essex. I also offer sessions online and work with clients all over the UK

Offers virtual sessions

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Emma Pickles

Family help

I met Wendy recently at an event we both attended, and I instantly warmed to her. I asked her if she would mind helping me with some emotional issues I was having with a family member, I wanted to feel calm and in control around this person who had been upsetting me and making me ill. Wendy made me feel completely at ease whilst she coached me, her sanctuary space was the perfect setting to instil the calmness I so badly needed. I went away from the session feeling much more in control and happy about the relationship with the family member. I would strongly recommend Wendy for her caring and compassionate nature, she gave me the time and space to reflect and improve my situation. Thank you so much x

Sarah Woolley

I highly recommend Wendy

I’ve known Wendy for a good few years now and she has always been someone who holds a natural, nurturing aura around her.

Much to my delight, after delving into NLP, I have had a couple of sessions with her and I can honestly say it was like magic!

Holding the utmost care and professionalism, we worked on a couple of exercises.

Wendy went through everything I felt I needed help with and I came out feeling so positive and like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders.

I cannot recommend Wendy enough ❤️ truly fantastic

Stephie Glazebrook

Wendy is exceptional at what she does!

Wendy is exceptional at what she does. Just being in her presence is so calming. Wendy helped me to deal with some extremely stressful work issues. Her techniques helped me to change my belief around the problems I was having and I became a much happier and calmer person in work. After our session I felt like I was able to be a truer version of myself at work. Wendy is someone I can truly trust and she really cares about helping others.


Amazing! Wendy has really helped me on my journey to become the person I want to be

Wendy has helped me so much within my journey. She has helped me with ways to cope with any feelings that I’m struggling to deal with. I love my anchors that we have placed on myself to help me to manage with different feelings that may worry or stress me out etc. Wendy listens to all that is worrying me and helps me to gain different perspectives ways of coping. I really can’t thank Wendy enough 😀.

I have not yet reviewed any books.